September 2009

You are currently browsing the monthly archive for September 2009.

Scene: Driving home yesterday afternoon with my nearly 3-year old, passing many schoolbuses on the road

OneShoeOff: Look at all the schoolbuses, honey!
Wee Girl: They’re taking the kids to school!
OSO: Well, probably not. They’re probably taking the kids home from school.
WG: Why are they taking the kids home from school?
OSO: Because the kids are going home to see their mommies and daddies.
WG: Why do the kids want to go home to see their mommies and daddies? (Yes, my friends, we have entered the Why Stage with zeal!)
OSO: Well, don’t you want to go home to see your mommy and daddy?
WG: No.
OSO: Uh…
WG: You’re right here in the car with me and daddy’s not at home.
OSO: Oooohhh. Right. That makes perfect sense. Thank you for clarifying, oh wise one.

Fin

Man, that brain of hers is ALWAYS working. Unlike mine which is currently atrophying in the recesses of my skull. Which means it’s reasonable to assume she should be smarter than me in approximately 6 months. And believe me, there’s no shame in being outsmarted by a 3-year old! None at all! Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got to go finish reading the Encyclopedia Britannica before she does.

© 2009, OneShoeOff. All rights reserved.

Tags:

Brain Dump

Anyone else hear those crickets chirping around here? Yeah, me too. Truth be told, I feel so very overwhelmed and tired. I’ve been fighting exhaustion for several months now, and I thought it was a medication that I was on that made me feel that way. I was hopeful that when I finished the meds I would feel better, but nearly a month after I’m still feeling utterly exhausted. So it’s back to the doctor to see what we can figure out. I’ve also been back and forth to various doctors all summer for various ailments, most recently today for arch pain that turned out to be plantar fascitis (inflamed fascia on the bottom of my foot) which requires that I wear arch supports in my shoes and quit wearing flip-flops that I know already knew were terrible for my feet. And I’ve got a nearly 3-year old with all the fun times that come along with that. And I just finished traveling, but found out recently that I’ll need to travel for work in the relatively near future. And I have a full-time job that I do from home. And friends that I adore who want to spend time with me, and a husband who is infinitely patient and loving despite my many neuroses quirks. And I have this blog that I really, really love and all of you who might actually like it if I posted every so often. So yeah, I’ve got plenty of reason to be tired, but no reason to feel as thoroughly, mind-numbingly exhausted as I feel most days. I’m sure we’ll get to the bottom of it, and all will be well, but for right now it’s a struggle to wake up and get going each morning, and it’s a struggle to stay awake, alert, and reasonably functional all day.

So in lieu of a real post with, you know, coherence and maybe even a main point, I give you a dose of random from my brain.

How come people in Columbus HAVE to slow down and rubberneck each and every accident to the point of creating traffic where there shouldn’t be any?

I really don’t think I’m going to be able to finish the blanket I’m knitting for my in-laws in time for Christmas.

I wish the ventilation and insulation were better in our master bedroom. It’s a little stuffy in the summer and completely freezing in the winter. I can’t believe I let our daughter sleep in here with us when we first moved into the house, and I can’t believe it took me so long to figure out that she kept waking up crying because she was freaking cold.

I can’t wait to raze the tomato plants out back. It’s an unmanageable jungle out there and I’m ready to be done.

I feel like I got screwed out of a summer because we only had, what, 3 or 4 days with temps above 90? Lame.

My new haircut from yesterday looks like I teased the hell out of it today thanks to the humidity.

A lot of these items are weather/temperature-related.

I have astute powers of observation.

If I have nothing more interesting than the weather to write about, I probably shouldn’t be writing this post at all.

Panera’s mini chocolate chip cookies are really good.

I need cute sandals with good arch supports. Any recommendations?

I need to work on my Excel skills.

I need to order new business cards.

This is starting to sound like a to-do list.

That probably means I should quit writing and get back to work.

And if you’ve made it this far, you’re a very dedicated reader indeed. Or maybe you’re just rubbernecking the trainwreck that is my brain. And creating traffic where should be none. Get it? Traffic? Neglected blog? HA! Oy vey, I need to hit publish before this gets any worse. Either way, thanks for sticking it out, readers, even when it gets a little sleepy and weird over here.

© 2009, OneShoeOff. All rights reserved.

We’re back from yet another weekend out of town, this time spent at the in-laws’. I’m DONE traveling for this summer. I love it deeply, but I desperately need a break from packing and unpacking the same suitcases again and again. Now that we’re staying put for a while, I should be able to post more regularly. It’s amazing how hard it is to pen a coherent post when you’re busy wondering whether or not you remembered to pack underwear.

On to the real reason for this post! It’s Restaurant Week courtesy of the folks over at Dine Originals Columbus, which means that lots of amazing, locally-owned restaurants are offering some pretty spectacular pre-fixe menus for $20.09 or $30.09. It’s one of my favorite local events, and I try to make it point to hit at least one restaurant I’ve never tried during Restaurant Week. BUT, and this is a big but, the restaurants featured in this week-long event lean heavily towards Western cuisine. In fact, there isn’t a single Asian restaurant on the list, and as I’m half Chinese, you can imagine this bugs me a bit.

So to do my part to help promote the locally-owned Asian restaurants in Columbus, I’ve generated a list of the top places every Columbus local (and all you visitors, too!) should hit. These aren’t chain restaurants, and quite a few are mom and pop run establishments that serve excellent, authentic food. And what’s really cool is that at each of these restaurants, you will routinely see lots of people of the same ethnicity as the type of cuisine being served, which to me is a necessary measure of authenticity. Anyways, on with the list. In no particular order, here are the Top 10 Asian Restaurants in Columbus:

1) Pad Thai-3589 Refugee Rd–It took 4 years living in Columbus to discover this little gem, tucked away in a non-descript shopping center. The food here is the most authentic Thai food we’ve found in Columbus, it’s reasonably-priced, and the owners are delightful. Try the Pad Thai, Penang Curry, and the Yum Woon Sen while you’re there.

2) Indochine Cafe-561 S. Hamilton Rd.–This family-run restaurant was originally located on Main Street until they moved to their new, renovated Hamilton Road location. They feature Vietnamese and Laotian cuisine, and they often cook up daily specials not listed on the menu so be sure to ask. I have no hesitation walking into this restaurant and asking for “whatever is good today” confident I’ll get a great meal. Prices are amazing, and our family of two and a half can easily walk out of there stuffed to the gills for under $25. Try the Summer Rolls, Pho, and Chicken Wings (seriously, the marinade on these is to die for).

3) Akai Hana-1173 Old Henderson Rd.–Akai Hana, previously known as Restaurant Japan, is hands-down the local favorite for Japanese food. The food is authentic and fresh, the waitstaff courteous and friendly, and the atmosphere warm and inviting. They run daily lunch and dinner specials, and for Japanese food, the prices are reasonable. This is a popular local spot and it’s wise to phone ahead to get a reservation on weekends. Try the Sukiyaki, Nabeyaki Udon, or any of the sushi menu items.

4) Yau’s China Bistro-1493 N. High St.–For those of you Columbus locals who have been around some time, you may remember Yau’s as Wong Gei, which was located farther north on high street directly across from OSU’s campus. The menu mostly features Cantonese cuisine, and you’ll find many an Asian college student camped out in here on any night of the week. The atmosphere is very casual, but the service is great, and the food carries all the flavors of home that I miss. Try the Roast Pork Wonton Noodle Soup, House Tofu, or Singapore Rice Noodles while you’re there.

5) Ba Sho-2800 Festival Lane Center–I love this restaurant for how it makes me feel like I’m in Japan while I’m there. The space is quite small, but features some tatami-style seating, and a Japanese ambience that’s hard to find in Columbus. There’s a hot menu as well as a sushi menu, but while you’re there, look around to see what everyone else is eating, because there’s an extensive menu in Japanese for the Japanese clientele. If you see something you like, don’t hesitate to ask for it! Try the Katsu Don, Hiyashi Chuka (in the summer months only), or any of the sushi bar items.

6) Bayleaf India Bistro-1025 Polaris Parkway–One of my favorite restaurants in Columbus, Bayleaf is a relatively new addition to the Columbus food scene. The restaurant staff is hospitable, and the food is awesome. The dining room is spacious and beautiful, and eating there is overall just a nice experience. When they get busy, the food can get a little bit slow, but I’ve noticed over the past months that this has improved dramatically. Stop by for the lunch buffet, or try the Tarka Dal, Samosas, or Biryani while you’re there.

7) Cuisine of India-8475 Sancus Blvd.–This restaurant was recently introduced to me by a friend of mine who works in its vicinity. The staff was extremely helpful, and offered us an entree on the house the first time we visited simply, I think, because they recognized that we were new to the restaurant. Authentic flavors, great service, delicious food; what more could you ask for? Try the Tandoori Chicken, Gosht Tikka Masala, or any of their vegetarian entrees.

8) Taste of Bali-2548 Bethel Rd.–If you’ve never tried Indonesian food, Taste of Bali is the place to go. The restaurant is quaint, the waitstaff friendly and helpful, and the food interesting and tasty. We’ve always had great service at Taste of Bali, and each time we go, we try something new as neither my husband nor I are particularly familiar with Indonesian cuisine. The sampler platters are a great way to experience the flavors and textures of a cuisine many don’t have the opportunity to try.

9) Ka-Ya Korean BBQ-4710 Reed Rd.–Ka-Ya is another new-to-me restaurant which boasts the only real Korean BBQ in Columbus. Prices are a little high for the experience, but definitely worth trying if you’ve never had it before. The food is cooked at the table and served with traditional Korean side dishes, and is especially nice on a cold winter’s night. They serve a variety of other traditional Korean dishes, and have a sushi bar as well. The staff at this restaurant may seem brusque at first, but warm up very quickly to conversation and are very helpful in deciding what to order.

10) Min-Ga Korean Restaurant-800 Bethel Rd.–Min-Ga is an unassuming little restaurant located in yet another Central Ohio strip mall, and it is absolutely delightful. Service is friendly and fast, and the food is SO unbelievably good. As with all Korean food, entrees are served with small portions of traditional Korean side dishes, and there’s plenty of drool-worthy options on the menu. Try the Bulgogi, Dolsot Bibimbap, or Duk Mandu Guk.

If I were a food blogger, this post could have been enough material to spread out over weeks. But I’m not, and I wanted everything to be in one convenient location for easy reference. I was thinking, if there’s enough interest (has anyone even read this far?), perhaps the locals around here would want to do a 10-week Asian Dine Around Columbus Tour, and I could report back the results with pictures and more detailed descriptions. Any takers?

© 2009, OneShoeOff. All rights reserved.

Tags:

She played me like a fiddle. My precocious, clever toddler daughter has figured out how to lay on the guilt like an expert, although I’m sure her intent wasn’t to hurt, and I’m not even sure she knows she did it. Not just with sad puppy eyes and crocodile tears, but with words that stabbed like so many arrows STRAIGHT to the heart. And believe me, I suffer from my fair share of maternal guilt, so this poses a new! exciting! fun! parenting challenge.

She had been having trouble listening today, lots of touching things I had repeatedly asked her to leave alone, lots of ignoring my requests, just testing the boundaries again. When do they stop doing that? 25? 30? I was already quite cross with her when my potty-trained child then had an accident on the floor of the bathroom, just shy of 2 feet from the potty where she had been playing for several minutes with her tub toys. File this under “Things You Shouldn’t Do as a Parent,” but I got frustrated and really upset and raised my voice. I know, I know, not good. Especially because when I got upset, she got upset, and my goal here isn’t to give my kid a complex about the potty. I asked her to stand there, wet, while I cleaned up. I told her that if she couldn’t use the potty, she needed to wear a diaper (which she HATES) because peeing on the floor isn’t okay. I told her that kids who can’t use the potty can’t do lots of fun things like go to school; this didn’t make her happy. I cleaned her up, put a diaper on her, which also made her unhappy, and I explained that she could pee and poop in the diaper, which she vehemently did not want to do. Clearly I am NOT any kind of parenting genius. After much back and forth about the diaper issue, she insisted that she didn’t want to pee in her diaper, she wanted to pee in the potty. I took her back to the potty, where she did pee just a bit more. When she was wiped and dressed again, she was practically giddy with excitement.

“I peed in the potty ALL BY MYSELF.”

“Yes, you did.”

“I’m SO happy.”

“I’m very glad you’re happy.”

“Mama, are YOU happy?”

Uh oh… “Honey, I’m not happy that you peed on the floor, but I’m glad you told me you had to go potty again.”

Please note that at this point, I’m already feeling pretty rotten about how I handled the situation and strategizing about how not to be an asshole the next time it happens.

In her most sacchariney sweet voice she follows up with this: “Mama, I just want to make you happy.”

If the coroner asks, tell him I died of guilt.

But is she done? No. Nyet. Nein. “Mama, when I say ‘I love you,’ it makes you happy. Mama, I love you.”

So, yeah, ouch. She’s totally got me pegged, and what can I do at this point but have a long conversation with her about how lots of things make mama happy like when she’s a good listener, and when she’s kind to her friends, and when she shares her toys, and yes, of course when she says ‘I love you.’ Then we follow that up with a conversation about how it’s okay for people to get sad and angry, including her and all her favorite people in the world, but it doesn’t mean that we don’t love each other. Then we talk about how mama loves her all the time, even when she’s not a good listener, or when she has accidents, or when she doesn’t share. Then we talk some more about how we’ll work together to make sure she continues to use the potty like a big girl, and mama is really sorry she raised her voice. Hopefully this was a reasonably good save after a decidedly lame parenting decision. She, of course, seemed perfectly fine, but I have to be grateful that kids are smart and resilient and that I don’t always have my head shoved halfway up my ass.

© 2009, OneShoeOff. All rights reserved.

Tags: